Dh is a nob head and moving out soon

[Kennyp]

Marrisge has been a big splatty mess since the early days and i should not reslly havemarried him but why am i feeling so absolutely awful? I can,t tell my dad as he will be so disappointed with meas he things that nob head is winderful to put up with me. (seriously)

Children dnt know yet, are telling them when he gets a flat sorted. They will be gutted. I had no idea i would feel this completely awful even though it has been bad for such a long time.

I justdontknow what to do :(. Sad face seems a bit trite at the moment!!

It will be ok in the end [stoic face]

It will be easier once you have more sorted and have told people. I was so terrified of what people would think and say when I separated but everyone has been supportive.

Keep going. In the long run you will feel better.

Once it's out there and public then it becomes more real. And once it's more real then it's more copeable with - because you realise a) you have no choice and b) you have support - probably more than you know.

It is sad, and it is hard, but you wouldn't be this far along if you didn't know it wasn't the right thing to do.

There's no point staying miserable just to keep your kids or your Dad happy. Any split is upsetting, even if you knew the relationship was a big mistake from the start. What to do? Put yourself #1 priority in your own life from now on, get the best legal advice rather than letting guilt mean you sell yourself short, and make some plans that make the most of your new-found independence.

No point in sticking together if you are both miserable. It's horrid while it happens but 10 days after he's gone you will feel SO MUCH BETTER.

Tell your dad - he's going to find out anyway and so what if he thought thinks were sunny when they weren't? He will want to support you.