Hi All,
I didn't explain this fully last post so here it is with some clarification.
I?m divorced and I live with my new partner and my 2 children. I work full time, pay for all the child care etc and get nothing from my ex husband towards our children?s upkeep.
My ex husband is from another country, lives here, has a UK passport.
He gets £2,000+ a month, every month into a non UK bank account, from his government?s military as a payout due to an accident he was in years ago.
There is nothing wrong with him now but he still gets the monthly payment.
He is quite capable of working but chooses not to and is claiming UK benefits
He?s living at his friends house
He has a large CSA debt which he is not paying
He refuses to pay any maintenance whatsoever for his children, he has them every other weekend
I?d really welcome any advice and information on how I can get him to be responsible and contribute to his children?s care.
It just seem so unjust, he expects all the rights with none of the responsibilities
Does anybody have any idea of who I can turn to for help, anything I can do, any agencies to contact (have tried the CSA of course), etc etc. What about the tax people or the CAB. I?d appreciate any advice
Thanks very much
Stressed out
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totalstress · 20/08/2012 14:10
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