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Emotional abuse-evidence

8 replies

amybelle1990 · 16/08/2012 18:58

Excuse my curiosity, but has anyone actually managed to prove emotional abuse. The only things that I have seen regarding support for victims of emotional abuse have been support leaving and support recovering, however has anyone managed to get support for prosecution and achieved justice/closure?

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sunrise65 · 16/08/2012 22:41

sorry can't help you much but I do know that you are allowed to report any threats, intimidation or if u feel scared at all to the police and they will log it and take you seriously. Have you spoken to women's aid at all? What I have been told is that the courts are often sympathetic where e abuse is concerned these days and you don't necessarily have to have clear evidence but do make your own records of incidents if you can.

sunrise65 · 16/08/2012 22:43

sorry can't help you much but I do know that you are allowed to report any threats, intimidation or if u feel scared at all to the police and they will log it and take you seriously. Have you spoken to women's aid at all? What I have been told is that the courts are often sympathetic where e abuse is concerned these days and you don't necessarily have to have clear evidence but do make your own records of incidents if you can.

LunarRose · 16/08/2012 22:47

no - not here, nor major mental and financial abuse

AnyFucker · 16/08/2012 22:49

keep a record of intimidating texts, emails

friend/neighbour/family testimony

witnesses to emotionally abusive behaviour in public...teachers, nursery staff, joint counsellors, solicitors, mediation services

GP/mental health professionals opinion as to why someone may be driven to act as they do as a result of abuse (much of it is textbook)

I am listing a few here (there are probably more)

could any of these work for you ?

AnyFucker · 16/08/2012 22:51

it is very difficult to prove beyond doubt, that is for sure

and that is precisely why these fuckers employ their tactics Angry

amybelle1990 · 17/08/2012 11:44

It all happened a long time ago, so I'm not going to be actually attempting to prosecute. I've just been thinking a lot about what could have been done differently.

I feel so sorry for the SS/police who might have to make these judgement calls with the knowledge that the actual perpetrator might be so clever that they never get found out

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ItWentThatWay · 17/08/2012 11:58

Emotional abuse currently has no remedy other than leave and seek help, however, the law does afford protection for victims under the 1997 Protection from Harrasment Act. I had my ex charged under this Act and he served time in prison, in addition I was given a restraining order. Personally, I still don't think it's justice as I may never fully recover. I've suffered with PTSD for a long time.

ItWentThatWay · 17/08/2012 12:00

Additionally, a victim can claim compensation from the Criminal Injuries Compensation Authority. Compensation is awarded for mental as well as physical injury.

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