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Supporting a friend who is an addict

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Beaverfeaver · 15/08/2012 22:37

I have a good friend who is a drug addict.
They have been one for over 3 years and is all I have known of them.
I usually would not entertain being friends with someone who is self destructive in this way but I can see such good in them and they are sensitive and know thy are hurting deep down.
After a terrible experience over the weekend and becoming close to losing their job this week they have decided to change and made the decision to book a doctors appointment.

I was there holding their hand whilst they made the doctors call and they went to the doctors this afternoon.
I don't know the outcome of this, just that they are now waiting on a phone call.

I am so proud of them for making this first step. It will be a long hard road, but doing this has shown me how strong they can be.

I want to do everything and anything I can to help and make it as easy for them to recover as quickly as possible.

Does anyone have any experience with this?

I don't want to be overbearing and have always made sure that I don't nag etc.

I wonder what the outcome of the doctors appointment will be and what they will suggest?

If counselling has even advised they asked if I would be there with them, which I will be.

My main worry is that it's the weekend soon, and they will forget all the bad stuff from last weekend, get back on it and forget about recovery

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DippyDoohdah · 15/08/2012 22:45

Whichever your area, google for local drug support services.they should be more in touch than gp.also should link you into support services for friends and families of users. Pm me if you like, am a drug and alcohol counsellor x

Beaverfeaver · 15/08/2012 22:51

Thanks dippy.
Sent you pm x

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