Hello after a little advice. Im a regular poster but have namechanged.
I have been with DP for 2 and a half years and we are planning our wedding. I have dcs from another realtionship. Everything has been great and he gets ongreat with dcs. They have never been around another man and they adore him as do i. Anyway a few months ago he left his fb open on a page where he had messaged a girl. He knew her from childhood. He started off saying she looked hot in her pics and then went on to ask if she still sees his sister,what she does for a living etc.He then told her he was working away(which he was)and asked if she fancied meeting up.He said he would pay for drinks. Most of the meeting up messages were sent when i know for a fact he was drunk(no excuse just saying). Then in the sober morning he ended with a message i like what i see you like what you see lets meet up and see what happens. She never replied. I confronted him. Told him to leave. After promising it would never happen again and deleting most of the women of facebook as well asgenuinely trying hard at the relationship and talking it through we decided to stay together.
Anyway fast forward 3 months. I know his fb password. He has messaged two of his exes. One just saying hi hope you are ok and recovered(she had an accident)love to your family.No kisses. They were together 11 years. He also messaged one he was with 9 months hshe cheated and left him.He asked how she was and said nice to see you have a nice fella and glad to see you happy.He asked where she was living these days and he said good luck with that wouldnt fancy it there.Also asked what she does for a living now and how one of her friends is.No kisses she sent the last message and they havent spoken since so far.
Sorry for the long post.What are your thoughts please.