Miserable weekend

[IWant2BASpiceGirl]

I have posted before - but have name changed.

I just want a moan. Just had a crappy, crappy weekend with bf.

He started a massive argument while we were out for dinner together on Saturday night about my credit card bill then sulked all night and 'worked' until 2am. Then last night took himself off upstairs to get his gym bag together - when in fact he was looking at porn sites - I walked in and so a huge screaming match kicked off which resulted in me crying myself to sleep.

I'm tired and back at work. He's grovelling and I'm still madddd

That doesn't sounds very pleasant. What's keeping you together?

Well; no DC's. Suppose it's that old chesnut. When it's good it's so good - but in all honesty; this was an unusually bad weekend.
Sorry I know this seems so small and insiginificant; especially compared to some of the other threads on here but weekends are so short and the working week is sooooo long and he's such an arse! x

It might be small and insignificant compared to the problems of others but this is YOUR life. How long have you been together? Do you have a problem with debt or did he pick on that just to start an argument? Is any man worth crying yourself to sleep over?

How long together? I have to say it doesn't sound sustainable. Over time nothing can make up for the bad times and resentment builds (often by this stage a couple have dc's so feel they can't now make a decision to leave).

If you can't communicate now it will only get worse.

Please don't settle for a poor relationship - many of us did (me included) and getting out is much harder when you're older.