7 months ago i left my husband, weve been together for 11 years, married for 7, and have 4 dc between us (2 together). he has never really been interested in the children and is a very moody,stressy man who became harder to live with, the only thing i can say is he adores me, but thats my problem, he will not leave me alone, constant harrassing, saying things infront of the children, putting rubbish on facebook, generally making my life hell. ive told him i dont love him anymore and dont want to try anymore but he will just not leave me alone.
i will admit i met someone 5 weeks after we separated but it ended a few months later. i never cheated at all in my 11 years with him, just stopped loving him.
i did get the police involved at the begining who gave him a warning but since i filed for divorce a couple of weeks ago things have got so much worse. im so depressed and misreble, my family make me feel like i should go back and im trying so hard to proctect my dc but feel im failing them terribley, i want to go to the police again but really dont want this to affect my dc, i feel like ive been a bad mum already by leaving there father, i dont want to make it worse, i just cant cope with all the harrassment and everytime i see him the comments in front of the children, its awful.
he found out i was seeing this person by hacking my facebook and reading my messages, ive told him im not with him anymore but he doesnt believe me and constantly accuses me of being with him. my life right now is hell, i was misreable when i was with him but not as much as i am now, should i just go back and try harder for the dc or go to the police, carry on with divorce and hope in time things will get better?