Bit of backstory - five or so years ago I had a few ONSs with a bloke I knew from uni. After the first he behaved like a complete twat despite the flirtatious buildup, but I was smitten. Eventually I got over it but we continued to have the occasional night together whenever he was visiting our group of friends (he's from up north). After that first time I got sensible and knew it was just a shag, but it was a good one so I was happy with that and didn't want anything else.
Over the years we've stayed in touch and often sent the odd drunken text which usually developed into sexting. Then he and I both got into relationships and obviously the sexting stopped. We're now both single again but I have long since ceased to have any feelings for him. A fortnight ago he texted me, while drunk with a mutual friend, and the mutual friend also sent me a text saying "XX asked me to say he thinks you're special". I didn't get the texts till I woke up and so replied innocently saying "speshul more like" and then got another one later on basically saying "don't read anything into it, it was [mate's name] who sent it". It pissed me off because I hadn't done anything to merit the response, and he seemed to be saying "don't get your hopes up" when I don't have any feelings for him at all! Then last night I got a text asking why I'd not been in touch or liked any of his FB stuff, had he offended me yadda yadda and I am torn between not responding at all or giving him a piece of my mind.
I want to say he's a nice bloke but this is all so childish, arrogant and frankly disrespectful to me. On the other hand I wonder if I'm making a mountain out of a molehill. WWYD?