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It pays to be aloof, never make an effort, and to not bother with people

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Crosstraineraddict · 10/08/2012 16:08

I am sick to the back teeth of being treated disrespectfully by people. I think I am too nice. I never get thanked by people when I do them favours. If I make a comment on someone's Facebook status or photograph mine will often get overlooked but others that reply get thanked profusely.

My best friend that I was at school with treats me disrespectfully too. She seems to have a certain tone that she uses with me and I can just tell she respects others more. She'll often speak badly to me or be snappy with me, yet she isn't like it with other people.

Those people that I do know that are aloof, and rarely make any effort with anyone, and just talk about themselves seem to have people flocking around them, everyone trying to be in with them, and everyone trying to be their best buddy.

I've always tried to treat others as I wish to be treated myself but I am very close to thinking stuff the lot of them and just not bother with anyone again. There doesn't seem much point when I get treated badly.

OP posts:
TheProvincialLady · 12/08/2012 16:24

If anyone lives in Leicester and wants a wonderful friend, I am that ladyGrin

FaultLines · 12/08/2012 23:23

Thanks for the encouraging comments ladies! Appreciated.

crosstraineraddict · 13/08/2012 13:46

Faultlines I am at the stage where I think I would rather have no friends than friends that treat me like rubbish.

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notmeatthemo2012 · 13/08/2012 14:55

Crosstraineraddict, sorry to hear about your friends doing that. They really are not worth your time. It can be so hurtful when people go on like that.
Some women are so immature, they are a waste of your energy!

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