My sons a level results are out next week and as long as he gets what he needs to get into uni i'm leaving with him ( not to go to uni! Lol).
A bit of background married very young two kids now 21 ( just graduated) & 18. My DH has a lot of narcarcisstic traits met up with old friends enablers and coke heads ( previously never touched coke) had an affair with a woman in this group ( while I was at home with the kids) . Was about to leave him when my son was diagnosed with a rare incurable lymphoma ( which is stable at stage 1 and is set to stay that way) I decided to stay as he's not a crap father although he is selfish and everything is about him.
DS and I have just had a huge row with him mostly about how if he doesn't get his grades he's not supporting him etc etc and he's not sitting on his arse ( I agree) but that's all the kids can do this week.the row started after the kids and I were comparing ears he was saying how small they are we looked and his and I inferred that his were big. He then started calling me a nasty c**t in a joking voice and didn't like it when DS & I gave him some of his own medicine ( lovely huh!).
Anyway may even leave if the uni doesn't come through cos I'd rather live in a hole in the bottom of the garden than with him. The next week will be tense enough anyway without Mr drama taking over I even have a feeling that if DS does get his grades he'll be disappointed he can't moan to his revolting golf buddies about us. Just feel like his behaviour ( I would fill up all the pages on mumsnet!) has turned my life into a series of Eastender's can't wait for it to finish!