My recently divorced sister has signed up to one or two (maybe more) free dating websites. She is not looking for a partner, but rather just to have some fun. She told me her user name and (rightly or wrongly) I googled it.
I was really shocked to see that her details are on MANY sites, some of which are really seedy and vile.
i am too embarrased to tell her that I googled her (Daft, I know) but I wonder whether she has any idea that she is all over these other websites, too. Some of them are very graphic and base.
My question is - if you sign up to a free website such as this, is your information automatically shared with other sites or would she have had to sign up for all of them? I appreciate that it is none of my business but I am concerned that she is playing with fire. She has had lots of dates and lots of sex with various men (her life, I know) but I worry that one will be a maniac and do her some harm.
She says that she is very careful and does not open the door if they do not look like the picture that they sent her - this means that they coming to her home!
Do I tell her what I found? Would she know she is on all these sites? 