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Dh too tired for sex

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Ginga66 · 04/08/2012 00:02

We have an eight week old and three year old. Iam sleeping in room with baby and dh in with son.
As you can imagine the days are very exhausting with housework children work etc.
We hardly ever get to bed before twelve.
However if we do get it on its always pretty quick as dh obsessed with getting his sleep. Needless to sayi don't get unbroken sleep myself.
I keep trying to cajole him into bed earlier for a bit more than wham bam but he's always messing around with washing machine or one more thing h has to do.
He says I lookso disappointed before wetry that he doesn't feel like it. All we had tonight was a cuddle.
Unhelpfully I havbeen reading that daft fifty shades and a desiring a lot more in the way of seduction. Our sex life has become very samey because it's so quick. If anyone should be wiped out its me but he just doesn't seem to be bothered if we do or don't.
I am feeling very sad about this and hard done by and tired of asking for it as get accused of being demanding and controlling.
Do I push the matter or bite my tongue!
Anyone have similar?

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ImperialBlether · 04/08/2012 00:05

You have my full admiration for doing all that work and then wanting sex.

However, to solve the problem, are there jobs that your husband's doing in the evening which could be done earlier in the day?

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