Some may remember my posts over the weeks about my non relationship with not so Darling H.
I can't move forward from his lies and I am depressingly unhappy so have decide that it will be best for me and our DC to move out.
I have been posting on the surviving infidelity thread as Scarlet, not as a sock puppet I haste to add. I just wanted a name that didn't make people say "that's that poor cow in that sad existence of a life" every time I posted, it was some more head in the sand/run for the hills behaviour I suppose.
I looked online at the CAB and found one in my town that is only open on a Tuesday and was only open for another hour, I took it as fate, grabbed some payslips and the DC.
I now have info sheets and website calculators and am finally seeing I can start again and not have to be unhappy forever, I can stand on my own to feet with support from the government.
I'm now looking for a flat to rent and planning how to squirrel away the deposit without him finding out, once everything is in place I am going to go.
What do I need to have in place apart from applying for a new bank account and then working tax credit, housing benefit etc.
Gulp, I feel so scared and excited all at the same time, please tell me I am not completely mad for trying to be happy again!
Also, I'm worried he is reading my iPad (not massivly so and probably wouldnt do him any harm to read the last thread but i would prefer not this one) I'm deleting history but is there anything else I should be doing?