Daughter accused stepdad

[daughtersmeaneverything]

My daughter accused my husband of trying to touch her years ago, police investigated but no evidence. Husband moves back home after advised by police liason officer that they feel it was her way of getting me back together with her father. All was well for many years until now. My daughter found his phone recording her in her room. Needless to say i throw him out. Yet again the police say the is no evidence, owing to the fact she deleted the recording.
He still says he hasn't done it. Our marriage is over, l could never trust him.
I paid for a lie detector to get the truth. She was telling the truth all along.
The guilt i feel is enormous.
My other daughter believes her father and has moved in with him.
My family is falling apart.
Can anyone advise of a help group.

I'm with burning on mosac.

I am so sorry your daughter had to go through this. It's a terrible betrayal from your partner and from her stepdad.

Remind your eldest that you are there for her and she can talk to you whenever she wants. That she should seek counselling if she feels it's appropriate and to avoid any contact with him, which I am sure she is already gladly doing.

Your second daughter as you have said, just keep channels open. Don't tell her not to see him, this will pull her away. Just promise you are there for her, just like DD1 and although you know she believes her Dad that you believe your DD1 and feel their is enough proof but that it is her own decison to make.

I hope you all continue to heal from such a shocking revelation. Keep strong for your daughters and I honestly hope what comes around, goes around for this creep.

I was about to recommend MOSAC, also Pandoras

here

This is an area that is massively lacking in support tbh.

I am considering setting up a local support group for parents, there are some, but they are all London based,

also have you been in touch with the local rape support centre?

Daughters, I cant say much, pending trial, but I promise you, it doesnt hurt this much for ever.

Thanks for the web site. I'll contact them today.