All I seem to do is keep having a go at him.
He doesnt take responisbility for ANYTHING.
6 weeks ago I was arrested because HE was shop lifting when me and little man were with him. I DIDNT EVEN KNOW HE WAS DOING IT!!!!
Thankfully, the bench were kind and I was let off with a servere telling off. I still have a criminal record tho!!! Ive never broken the law (apart from speeding occasionally to get to somewhere because he forgot)
He got sacked from his job for telling his boss he wouldnt be in because we were at hospital with the baby as he had meningitus. BLATANT LIE?!?! LITTLE MAN HAS NEVER BEEN ILL!!!
He wouldnt leave me alone when I was upset. I dont know why I smashed my head on the bathroom shelf but I just did. I ended up with a concussion. I HAD TO CALL THE POLICE TO GET HIM TO LEAVE ME ALONE. They came out and called the paramedics out. Night spent in hospital.
All the while he refused to put the baby down. He wouldnt even let me hold him. HIS OWN MOTHER!!!
I was diagnosed with depression before I found out I was pregnant.
Birth was terrible. HE KEPT TAKING OVER.
Made me come home even tho I had an infection from bleeding out.
He knows if I am left alone with the baby I will leave him.
Because of this he refuses to find a job. When he goes out he takes little man with him.
He would never hurt me physically but he is torturing me mentally.
Its the usual thing, when everything is fine he is lovely.
You will all say "leave him!"
I refuse to go with out my boy and since his dad refuses to let him out of his sight it wont happen.
Social services arn't happy.
Health visitor isnt happy.
My family hate him and what he is doing to me.
I know I can take an injunction out while I am still living with him. It will only make things worse. "If anyone tries to take little off us we wont be in this country" is the reply i get when I tell him what child services say.
He has no job, no money and doesnt take care of the house.
Baby is 4 months old. Ive been offered my job back but why should I be forced to miss out on baby's development? I am on maternity leave until January. My boss knows my situation and is being VERY understanding.
He bought himself a new 3d tv last month. This month he bought the 3d bluray player. He spent over £300 on a fish tank for babys room. Nice gesture, he already killed 4 fish because I forget to feed them and he cant be bothered.
Everything in the house is HIS not ours.
My car is HIS not mine.
The house is rented, he blames me for having to sell his house because I couldn't afford his mortgage!
Its my birthday soon, he bought me a £500 ring. GET A JOB!!! DO SOMETHING ROUND THE HOUSE!!! MAKE ME FEEL SPECIAL!!! I DONT NEED A BLOODY RING!!!
I have an engagement ring im not allowed to wear, so why should I tell people we are engaged?
I hate him.
He wants me to respect HIS stuff. I BLOODY CLEAN IT EVERYDAY!!! HOW MUCH MORE RESPECTFUL CAN I GET!!!
Ive been feeling ill for the last few days.
Still no help around the house.
Sorry for the rant but I need to get it out.