what to do about DD birthday

[loganberry12]

Its my little girls 3'rd birthday in September we had planned to take her to peppa pig world before he left but now i have booked for my 22 year old daughter to come with us instead we're staying over in a hotel so looking forward to that. The thing is the next day i am going to do a family party for her do i invite ex h and put up with him in my house or not. Don't really want to as I'll feel awkward but thinking of my DD i know she'd ask for him if he's not there.

Your DD is 22. If she wants to meet up with him, she can go off and do that either before the party or another time. It's your home, your party.

No reason why you need to have an ex in your home if you don't want him there.

She is an adult. When I was 22 I was living in Brazil, 10,000km away from my family, she can sort out seeing him.

DD's 3 Happy! Other DD is 22.

Logan, if having him there would make you uncomfortable then don't invite him to the party. Allocate a separate time for him to see her.

Oh. which DD will be asking for her Dad? the 3yo? Whoops!

You are the adult, he can see DD(3) on a contact visit can't he? You don't have to invite him, he can do his OWN party for her can't he?