I know it's not Friday night but can we talk about sex?

[PhoneCharger]

I have a thread running right now about a potential "first time" with new partner tomorrow.

What I'd also like to discuss (possibly not on the same thread, hence the new one) is what IS the norm these days for 'other stuff' .

I've only ever been with two people and it's been a long time since my last one. I'm nervous. In films they always start by 'going down' on each other - you don't do that on the first time surely? is it expected??

Can anyone be so nice as to talk me through what a first time with a new partner usually entails? (anxiety issues!)

Yes I have name changed. (wouldn't you?!) but I'm not a teenager boy looking for kicks. I won't do the whole "greggs sausage roll, Slithery the Baby and Sharon and Adam at the grocery store thing but .. erm, I think I just did!"

So yeah, first time with new partner, what should I expect? I want to get it right. Sounds soppy but it could be the L word.

Don't over think it. Do what feels right. There's no right or wrong!

What Mushroom said.

Enjoy

What films have you been watching?

Go with the flow and do what comes naturally - whatever your partner may do to you, you're under no liability to return the pleasure if you don't want to.

Who are Sharon and Adam? It's just made me realise anyone could say anything about MN - ie I remember the copulating corpse, or I remember the Chairman and the sausage roll.

Sorry, OP.

Your boyfriend sounds really nice. I'm sure whatever you do will be fine. You can always tell him you're shy and nervous. You'll have a lovely time.

Don't forget to report back - just a number out of 10 will do!

Relax and enjoy what you want to do , there is no right or wrong way honey, your sound lovely and so does your guy , hope all goes well .x