Fuck shit...help me now

[ConfusedGirlSuze]

Ok - need to be quick.

Boyf likes porn.

We made a deal - no problem with me he could do it as long as I wasn't in the house.

Found out he's was doing it the other night wile I've been cooking his dinner :(

Feel sick - more about the lie than the porn.

Found out through snooping - want to confront him but don't want him to him to know I was looking - how can I confront without admitting?

Please help me - shall I just leave and go to my mums's - Please please help me :(

How is this the OP's fault? She said she doesn't want him to watch porn when she is in the house. He agreed.

He then did something he knows she hates while she was doing him the bloody favour of cooking his tea!!

I would be livid!

Agree though that if he thinks this is acceptable he is unlikely to chang. It says a lot about his respect for you.

Hello again ladies. Ok - boyf came down while I was furiously typing into MN. I asked me what was wrong - I explained the story and it told me he was watching porn before he went to work - when I had left the house. I explained it wasn't the porn Iwas upset - it was the fact he'd broken a promise to me. I fell better - and he's making dinner. Thank you for being there in my hour or so of need x

Oh also - for those who asked. Been together 2 years. I'm 25. Had depression last year - really poorly [hence occassional melt downs].

All people are different. If this is a big issue for you then perhaps your b/f isn't the right person for you. Don't think there is much point in trying to change him. For some people this wouldn't be a big deal and for some it would. Still it was thoughtless of him to say the least to do this in your house when you were cooking him a meal.

Well, why were you snooping?

She was 'in and out the sitting room' Deck. Hardly snooping.