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I hate drink

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beetlejuice73 · 05/03/2006 22:47

Just called mother to find her in floods of tears. Beating herself up about everything. Maudlin, hysterical, guilt-ridden. Been drinking alone all evening, according to unfortunate younger sister at home with her trying to get her to go to bed. I know I sound harsh, and I absolutely adore her, but why can't people understand how destructive alcohol is. Even worse she probably wouldn't even be in this state if not for my idiot DP who was drunk recently and decided to tell my darling mother some home truths. I hate alcohol more every day.

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fastasleep · 05/03/2006 22:53

Mine gets like this every night after 6... She swaps between getting guilt ridden and hysterical, to paranoid and dellusional, to an evil bitch (her personal fave!)....

I can't get drunk, I just can't and for that (and possibly that only!) I'm thankful for my mum.

It sucks doesn't it.

beetlejuice73 · 05/03/2006 22:56

It really does suck. But actually i've misrepresented her a bit. She's not the alcoholic - that's my DP - and she never does evel bitch. My mother just does it now and then. (i think). But I dread the thought that she'll get worse.
Sorry to hear about your mum. It really does suck!

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fastasleep · 05/03/2006 22:58

Didn't mean to say that I thought your mum was like that, I got what you meant!!

Just mine who's the alcoholic!

Sorry about your DP Sad

jenniferjuniper · 05/03/2006 22:59

i feel like you also after growing up with an alcoholic stepdad . Poor dp is not a big drinker at all but i cant bear it when he is drunk so we end up rowing .My past is so ingrained in how i deal with it

beetlejuice73 · 05/03/2006 23:15

oh god Dp now on his way home wanting to know the whole story. Insisting no fault of his. About to start being an arsehole. Going to go and hide in bed.He's such a prat.

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fastasleep · 05/03/2006 23:17

Aww beetlejuice, hope you have an ok night!

jenniferjuniper · 05/03/2006 23:18

beetlejuice - hope you have a quiet night and get to bed ok

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