Right well my issue here is that I had a one night stand the other night. It was with my ex work colleague and he's the same age as me. Anyways, it's complicated because he used to live with a guy I was seeing for a bit (another workmate), and we had a bit of a rocky relationship. Because of this, my one night stand friend - we'll call him Steve - didn't really like me, and wasn't afraid of letting me see that. It was a bit intense because we all worked together. Before however, me and Steve got along pretty well, we have a similar sense of humour and hit it off pretty good initially. Unfortunately my relationship with his housemate meant that he seen me as a bit of a *** because he would always hear a one sided version of events. Anyways I left this workplace and went to go work abroad for a couple of months, my relationship with the man I was seeing ended and when I returned I had happened to go to a night out with my old work colleagues. Steve was there, and didn't say much to me to start with, anyways later we all got a bit tipsy and we ended up talking for a while. He came out with me and my other friend, and me and him ended up together the whole night, chatting. He was completely different to the guy he was before, so nice to me, complimentary, completely different to how he was before etc, and clearly it was the case that he'd just always sided with my ex because they were friends. To cut a long story short, we ended up sleeping together. And it was really pretty good. I left early the next day and we have spoken quite a bit. However he leaves tomorrow to go to the other side of the country and so chances of anything coming from this are minimal. We both have said that the timing is bad, but that strangely enough we enjoyed each others company. Only problem is I can't get him out of my head, and I don't know why. I feel genuinely upset that I won't see him again, and a bit gutted because I know we'd hit it off so well. I really don't know what to do, I feel like this but I don't want to say anything and make a fool of myself because it's only been a few days and I know i'll sound a bit mental telling him i'm feeling like this when he's leaving tomorrow and to be honest, we don't know eachother that well. Is this maybe just a normal feeling after a one night stand? Please can someone give me advice, and please don't criticise me for him being friends with my ex. I know that it's not very right but I can't help how I feel. x