wanting another baby but husband doesnt

[childcare1]

I already have children and spoke to my hubby about having another, he didnt say no and we looked at bunkbeds and he kept the cot etc and put it in the loft, we talked about planning of it etc but has now changed his mind! im mortified to say the least, he says " i should be happy with the ones we have", which i am of course and if it was no from the start i would have excepted this.I feel v let down and hurt, I dont really know what to do next. I told him I would go back to work but he likes me to be at home! He cant have everything!

How many dc do you have and how old are they?

What reason does your h have for wanting you to be a sahm? What childcare would be required if you return to work?

Don't have another child if you don't both want one.

DO go back to work if you want to.

What's all this "likes me being at home" business? Sounds controlling.

we have two children, one 5 nearly six and other is 3 years, I work from home at min 50 hours a week where h does 40 a week, plus i do all housework etc. He says no reason just doesnt want another. Then the other day says well if you did by accident thats ok, but i dont want an accident!

Also would continue to work at home if another came along so no child care needed.