Think I'm lurking on the relationships thread too much....

[Spice17]

Had a dream last night that DH slept with my sister (who I have't seen for years and he's never met)

I know it's only a silly dream but it brought home to me all the awful dilemmas that some of you lovely people are facing, like loving someone but hating them at the same time. Not wanting to not have them in your life, so accepting an awful thing they did. Really made me wonder what I would do.

Would like to say I'd leave the bastard but it's never that black and white is it?

Think I need a break from the thread! and to give my DH some, as am pregnant and gone off it, feel bad now :)

Your dream sounds like a product of stress and insecurity rather than a premonition. Yes, stop reading break-up stories and concentrate on making your relationship and your life together as rewarding, committed and equal as possible. However, if you wanted to take away a lesson from these threads I'd suggest it's that, no matter how well you think you know someone or how much you think they love you, people have an endless capacity to surprise. Never take anything or anyone for granted and don't let them do the same to you.

I think your dream is hormone induced, I remember having some absolute shockers when I was pregnant !

lol im a lurker too. cept in my dream i was a thief pinching diamonds...

Cogito, think you're right. I love DH (coz he's great!) but I'm sure all the other wives/partners thought that too and look what happened to them.

Funny how this thread has made more of an impact on me than my 'Father' sperm donor having numerous affairs and then my step dad leaving my mum for an OW!

Old, could be to do with the hormones, I have had some unbeliveably weird dreams recently!