how would yiu feel if

[babyrose]

At Christmas dp and I decided to ttc again with our 2nd pregnancy. Ds is now 2 and we stay in rented accommodation anyway about a month later he changes his mind saying abiyt us not owning our iwn home. I was devastated and hurt that ge could do thus.

6 months have passed and now whilst on holiday he tells me he wants to tttc again, im so happy that he changed hus mind. Gain get home he bloody changes his mind again telling me he thinks we aren't ready and our financial situation could ve better?!

Now jm putting pressure on him, I dont get it! Im so angry how can ge do this.

I would be pissed off, TBH. Have you sat down and had a frank chat about why he keeps changing his mind?
To be fair, I can see his point, it would be nice to be in a better financial position if the one you are in is not massively great but then 'they' say that you can never afford to have children.......

But he needs to realise that by changing his mind on both occasions, it has made you feel the way you feel. He may desperately want a new baby but them panics when he fully considers the finances. I guess he could only be trying to make sure that the three of you can stay relatively comfortable.