to bootycall or not to bootycall?

[changeznameza]

after divorce i did not have sex with anyone for 5 years. count 'em.

2 weekends ago i had a mind blowing one night stand. this was the first sex - the first snog even - in 5 yrs. i am a different person since then, reawakened or something. i want to have sex again. quite badly. it's fun and i like it and it makes me feel beautiful and wanted and i am always careful etc etc etc - you lot all understand, right?

so the gas man came round and there was a bit of chemistry (i THINK) and my question is, should i call him and invite him round? he is single and just moved to my town. should i invite him round for a beer? pretend to have another problem with the boiler? what if he says no? but then, what man ever said no? i just want a shag. dont have any male friends who could help and no single girlfriends to go out on the town with.

my ds is staying with my exh this week so i am at home alone in the evenings

realise this sounds desperate. and it is. what do you think??? advice please.......

I would invite him round for a beer, or a night out and see what happens.
Nothing wrong with that at all, You have met someone you think is hot without having to internet date, or trawl around bars, lucky you.

As he came round in a professional capacity first, i'd feel safer too.

I'm sure after 5 years, you know you can handle the no strings thing, meet up with him again to see if he's on the same page.

Can't understand why anyone thinks its not a good idea? This is how we meet people in RL. Is it because he's a Gas Man not a Professor of something?

it's not a class thing, VW

not a social class thing anyway

I know exactly how you feel!!

I invited a work colleague round for dinner a shag and had a wild night!! He made me feel attractive, sexy and yes wanted! He doesn't want a relationship, I do, so I haven't done it again as I know I will get hurt!

But it was a great night! If you can set aside feelings and remain safe, go for it, but with not with the gas man, get the other hotty round!

PS: I had a gas man come to service my boiler when I lived in Kent, he was absolutely divine, maybe its the same one!!

i invited him round to do some jobs. on a day i will be on my own. i said i'd have some beer in the fridge and would be nice to see him. we did flirting on the phone. he is nice.

in your face haters! i'm off to shave my legs

Ha ha, good for you

in that case we'll be expecting expert tips from you on how to seduce workmen :o

@ "in your face haterz"

Have a good time (but take care).