My Ex Has been swimming with my baby girl and his new beau!!!!!!!

[sanchpanch]

oh my god i feel like i have taken 10 steps back, when i was really doing well...

He txted and asked me to pack dd swimming stuff for yesterday which i did...

Today at work my friend took me aside and said that she had seen them swimming and she was with them, and his mum was with them aswell, perfect family outing playing happy families with my baby girl....

I know there is nothing i can do, and as long as dd is happy thats all that matters, but i feel another knife through the heart like yes it is actually over and yes he has moved on, where as i have in lots of ways but not the relationship way..

And he has been phoning and txting me a lot recently which isnt normal,(but i havent responded) so i kind of guessed thay had split, but obviously not

glad to hear you're doing so well Benbenandme

interesting to hear that your new bf's ex wife isnt happy about you seeing their son

SHE left him so what did she expect????
words fail me

thanks ben ben, your words are always so nice and i really appreciate them thankyou....

Yes i am so pleased i have managed to hold it all together .. and resisted the temptation to phone him about it, there is no point he wont change the way he behaves, i would like to say something like, i cant beleive that it takes 3 of you to take a 2 year old swimming....

And i would prefer to leave him to sweat as he will be mortifed that my friend saw him...

I am also so pleased that i didnt give into his phone calls last weekend and txt messages....

Took the girls to get there photos done today they were so good and the photos gorgeous, but you look at them and think how can you do this to such precious babies....

RE the man at pool i will just see how it goes, i do feel ready for new relationship its been 8 months now( cant beleive its that long!!!!)
I maight try and talk to him this week.....