Anyway to lower my sex drive??? Its driving me mad...

[notsurewhyohwhy]

My sex drive is really high and its driving me mad... I am single but have a fwb that I see every few weeks. But if for example we meet up and it only happens once or twice in an eveing I get really annoyed.

And it was the same with the last guy I was going out with, twice per night was his limit and it left me in a terrible state...

So is there anyway to lower my sex drive? I am starting to feel that I cannot be satisfied!

my solution: i am seeing someone with delayed ejaculation... i see this as a huge plus as marathon 3- 5 hour sessions are leaving me with a huge smile on my face.

Have you considered a swingers' party? You could have two or three different men in the space of an evening. There are clubs all over the country these days and they are generally pleasant, safe places.

I am sure at a swinger's party, as a single woman, you will get all the attention that you need

No I don't want a swingers party, I don't really fancy a lot of people so probably would get there and think yuk!!

God I could kill my fwb right now, I asked him to come over as I have the day off and he is being a smart ass and saying I should have messaged him last night!! Ahhhh I am gonna explode!!!!

notsure - It might be interesting for you to monitor when you're ovulating - then you can be prepared for a spike in libido. I bet it factors in. Not that that's much help, but in some ways, when I understand why what's happening is happening in terms of my sex drive, then I can co-exist with it better.

calm down calm down

you are not going to explode, nobody died from not having sex

Whereas lots of people have died, or met fates worse than death, from having it - natural causes included

AF - you'd better tell that to my DH....

OP - go for a run. A really long one.

well, nora, your H is being very silly too

Don't worry, he wouldn't dare say it out loud cause then he really would be dead

Bromide in his tea or a bucket of icy cold water should sort him, nora.

There are other things in life that are just as satisfying as a load of old squelching sex.

Find yourself an unheated lido and take up swimming. Nothing like freezing cold water to do the trick

There's really no point in me suggesting other ways to satisfy yourself because, as you you say, there's nothing that beats the real intimacy of real sex.

Now, this may sound strange so bear with me...............Have you heard of the expression 'the more you get it, the more you want it'? Well maybe you could turn it around. Ie, next time your f**k buddy comes over, try to just have sex once. I know that may sound strange but it may work.

I'm sort of speaking from experience as when I was about 18 I had a FWB and we used to have sex 3 or 4 times a night and I didn't think that having sex just once would be as satifying, but actually it was much more!! Think quality rather than quantity. I'm not saying the sex you're currently having isn't good, but i'm just wondering why it's over so quickly.

I don't want to be too personal, but do either you or your 'friend' come too quickly? I used to have this problem and I found that stopping or slowing things temporarily worked and it ended up lasting a lot longer and it was just better in general.

Does that sound like something you could do?