This can only go one way can't it :(

[BodaciousTatas]

Met a new man and I will admit this last week I have fallen hard (not normal for me). We had a frank disscission and he said he is nuts about me and feels the same way I do.

Here is the problem; his ex (gf not wife, no kids). They are still friends and she got upset when he told her about us, they were toghther for 5 years been apart for one, she now lives thousands of miles away. She is back in the UK soon and they had a break booked (with other people not just them.

I am really worried about it all, he assures me it is me he wants and showed me the emails explaining this to her, if she was over hIm I could cope. Advice and hand holding needed.

Will hold your hand if you like but actually I don't really see the problem? He's over her, it's you he wants, he even showed you the emails. Pretty honest and up front. So her feelings don't really come into it...Is your self esteem a bit low maybe?

I didn't think so but obviously this is not the case.

Can't you go with him?

So, if you are his new girlfriend, how come he is not inviting you on this break?

How long have you known him op?

No he hasn't asked me. We have been away together though. It was all booked before we became an item.

Ooo I don't know, I am half thinking I should give up.