Three of my children are changing schools in sept so there is loads of transition stuff going on at the moment. I work ft and there is quite alot of pressure in my role. I have been negotiating my hours to ensure I attend all additional transition events. When my dh came in tonight I explained I was worried about next year keeping track on three different education provisions and all that goes with it. He replied there would be no problem the hols would be the same and I was just looking for problems.
An argument started. There have been a number of issues between us lately and this was the trigger. When he comes in from work he always seems in a bad mood, endlessly moans at dcs for what they haven't done, never comments when they do something they should, we watch tv in bed and don't speak I ask about his day and he says nothings happened. Last night he was texting a friend about what we were watching on tv - why can't you talk to me instead of texting a friend about it I asked. He seems to disagree with everything I say and now I don't tell him everything that happens although I do still talk about my day etc.
I am so fed up. I am far from perfect. But it seems like he really doesn't give a shit about our relationship. I have tried and tried to talk to him and asked if hes unhappy and what can we do about it but he says nothing is wrong.
My heart sinks when I hear his car pull up, its like the arrival of a little black rain cloud.
Could anyone offer some perspective and thoughts on our current situation because I feel lost in our relationship - please be gentle!