Been seeing someone off and on for a while. No real reason for us to mess about other than we're both busy, mature people and we just were drifting. Few weeks ago he said life was too short and we should move forward. I was just getting used to the idea of us being an item. I was on holiday last week and he contacted me most days and as he is away tomorrow for a few days, we were supposed to meet up tonight but he back-tracked on our arrangement. He was so fucking subtle about cancelling tonight. He asked to see me last night instead but I only got back into the UK last night and when I said I thought we were meeting Tuesday he wrote, "mm Tuesday - might be a bit ???" I then obliged by suggesting that we leave it and catch-up when he gets back. I'm really too understanding. I've text him to say have a lovely holiday and look forward to seeing him when he comes back and I've heard absolutely nothing back from him. I'm a twat because there is no unearthly reason why he couldn't have responded to my text unless he is otherwise engaged. I feel so disappointed in him, so disappointed.