I haven't read this book yet but have it on order. Everything I have read about this book reasonates with me. In every long term relationship I have been in , the sex dwindles to virtually nothing because, for whatever reasons, I lose all sexual interest in relationships once they become domestic. Now I find my marriage has become the same. Then I have fallen upon this book and I feel it is about a whole lid on the way I have been subconsciously feeling for years.
If you have read it, is there enough answers in this book to help you understand if there is anyway around the problem that long-term relationships sometimes conflict with that sexual and erotic part of us (I know not for all of us, but some of us - and certainly for me)? Are there any other books that are useful on this subject. I think I have finally identified once of the main drivers why my marriage is going down the pan and feel utterly relieved that I'm clearly not the only one who feels like this. But is there any hope for someone who wants a secure relationship but also craves and needs an erotic and satisfying sex life??