Not sure if anyone gives a crap but here goes.
Many of you will have read my previous threads about our problems wrt sex. well........
After a 'discussion' dw agreed to counselling. After searching for a 'decent' consellor we started 'therapy'. First few sessions were ok but then we felt that the counsellor was just not up to the job so we stopped the counselling. We had put a self imposed 'sex ban' in place to take the pressure off dw which I found tough but it was for a good reason so I coped..... just.
I bought the book 'Mating in Captivity' which was reccommended by you wonderful lot on MN. I read it very quickly and it did help. It was good to know that what we were going through was quite normal and we were not alone. There were lots of ideas on how to help the situation and why the situation occurred in the first place. I asked DW if she would read it too when I had finished it and she is half way through it.
Anyway we decided to keep going at fixing our relationship as we both thought that we had a lot to save and it would be worth it.
I dont know quite what has happened over the past few weeks and niether does DW but I have to say I cant wipe the childish grin off my face having DTD 4 times in two weeks!!! It may not last but its amazing while it does 
Just want to say thank you to all of you that offered advice and support to me. I couldnt have got through this without you. And to those who are suffering similar problems..... dont give up, keep trying. You can save it if you really want to.
