It does get easier

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I have just started divorce proceedings following my stbxh's affair, and to date have been really struggling. Some days I have been on a high, convinced this was brilliant and I'd be free, and others really really distraught and unable to cope.

I just wanted to share that today I am finally neither, I am just calm. I'm not sure why, but I just decided it was time to move on. It is a huge huge relief.

So to everyone who like me is struggling with this it does get better. I envisage many more down days in the future, but knowing that I can feel calm and settled about it today means I will again in the future

good for you love!
It will only get better and better you'll be amazed
the best is yet to come
good luck to you

Congratulations You have turned a corner, now just keep going in that direction.

That's really good to hear. Hope you have many more calm days to come!

Thanks everyone, you've really spurred me on.

That is such a relief to hear. Thinking of us all at the moment. xx