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Looking for some advice.

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QueenFuri · 28/06/2012 07:37

I feel a bit stupid posting but I wanted to get some opinions last night I was asleep and was woken up by DP talking to someone I thought on the phone they were just having general chit chat. I looked at the clock it was 1am and the phone was still in the receiver, he had a headset on and was on Skype which I didn?t know we had and it was woman. I listened as he didn?t realise I was awake was telling her allsorts of stuff that he has never told me ever in almost 10 years of being together. They said their goodbyes and I asked him who he was talking too and he didn?t answer asked again he said no-body. I then went off on one he when he is home he doesn?t speak to me only sometimes but we don?t sit and have a conversation he sits in our bedroom. He ignored this and went back to playing his game I didn?t say anything else about it. I feel a bit stupid now as she probably was in America as he referred to football as soccer, I feel a bit put out as he doesn?t talk to me the way he speaks to her. I?m being a idiot aren?t I?

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tenzeros · 28/06/2012 07:53

No you're not being an idiot.

What sort of things was he saying to her?

QueenFuri · 28/06/2012 08:02

He was telling her about his dad who killed himself a few years ago.. he never speaks about him ever then talking about family stuff. I took it they were talking about medication for some reason as he isn't on any. It sounded as if he was talking to a life long friend but he doesn't know anyone in America at least he has never mentioned anyone to me!

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tenzeros · 28/06/2012 08:09

You mentioned he way playing a game, I know my ds talks to people in lots of other countries through playing games so that could be how he got to know her.

Try to sit down and talk about the same subjects with him, and more importantly let him know how this makes you feel, as it does sound as if he has got quite close to somebody.

Often it's easier to talk about things with strangers than the people closest to us.

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