can someone just clarify what this means please?

[pokeypants]

the phrase 'smash your back door in' ......just a basic meaning please i'm pretty sure i know but you know!

Are you hinting that they are threatening to anally rape? Or to brek into someones house?? (given that its in relationships, I'm assuming the former)

If you're in a relationship with someone threatening to do that, please take steps to get away from them

I take it to mean bumsex. Not forced.

I don't think it's necessarily bumsex, I thought it was just from behind?

i thought so not its just something I over heard a youngster saying but i dont think they actually realised what they are saying!!

I'm clearly a bit vanilla, thought of bailiffs when I read your op

yes but back door implies back entrance no ceeveebee?

Back door is bumsex. It's the verb i wouldn't be happy with - smash?

Not to my DH (or maybe it does and he keeps getting disappointed!)

I'm too innocent I think. I thought it was someone threatening to break into your house!

Not sure of its exact meaning (the above fairly likely) but it comes from 'Celebrity Juice' - Keith Lemon says it about any girl he fancies

This is one of Keith Lemon's 'catchphrases' isn't it?

I take it to mean sex, not anal in particular though.

Its definitely a reference to anal sex, hence the reference to 'back doors'.

Keith Lemon did not coin the phrase.

the choice of words is very telling, I mean 'ease in through the back door' would sound sort of affectionate
but 'smash your back door in' is just horrid :(

Yup bumsex but its not a nice phrase. Wud put me off even more.

Keith Lemon may not have coined the phrase but he's used it as a catchphrase for the last 4 years. His website sells t-shirts with the phrase.

I took it to mean 'I want to have anal sex with you whether you like it or not.'

The word 'smash' suggests that to me.

It's a nasty phrase for bumsex but it isn't meant to mean without consent.

I don't like the phrase but surely the most likely reason a youngster is using it is because it is a catchphrase used by a well known comedian.

Fairly well known slang for consensual bumsex.

Def not 'owned' by keith Lemon.