I was putting my eldest ds (4) to bed and he wanted me to tickle him. I started to tickle him and he said he wanted me to 'tickle his bits'. Obviously I said no cos they are private, and other people aren't allowed to touch his bits. He then said 'but I like it, Daddy tickles them, and it's ok to touch bits if I want people to touch them'
Told dh the conversation word for word and he was mortified, not over the top drama and denial, but stunned and lost for words, and very upset.
Have never ever had reason to suspect dh of anything, and I really believe that if did ever touch ds then he accidentally brushed ds bits during tickling, but I'm really worried that someone else may have touched my ds.
Was on holiday last week with dh's dsis and her family, could one of them done something? The way ds rationalised someone else touching him seems way beyond a 4 yo capabilities, has someone else put it into his head?
I feel sick and shakey, what odd I do?