so he's begged me to take him back

[KirstyWirsty]

Looks like we are going to get an offer on the house today but he now doesn't want to sell he wants to get back together.. almost 6 months to the day that i found proof of his affair that he'd denied for a year

He was in 'a bad place' and made 'bad decisions' but now he misses me and will be a much better husband.

The timing is impeccable what with the impending offer and that DD7 and I are jetting off on our first holiday without him today

I can't understand how he has the nerve after all he did and the horrid things he said to me.

He doesn't seem to be willing to listen to me. I have told him quite bluntly that I don't love him anymore abduction I don't want him back

I´m online checking if I had a letter from my solicitor and throught I´d drop in quickly from (cloudy) Lanzarote :)

He says he chucked OW but I don´t believe it and it doesn´t make any difference anyway

He also told him pal that he finished with OW .. and his pal also said it was as though reality struck when he did the first house viewing a month ago and that´s when he started all the sobbing

He came to his senses and we accepted an offer verbally yesterday so looks like I may be house hunting when I get back .. somewhere nice for me and DD

Anyway thanks to all of you for your support .. don´t know where I´d be without this forum xxx

I don't know the back story but I am very proud of you.

from the other side of the plate - the man who left his long term partner for me, back in January, has just gone back to her - but only after I ditched him for being a drunken loser.

I am sorry for her but she seems triumphant, maybe they can cope with each other - but I don't think anyone deserves a dickhead like him, or like yours.

Well done x

(wasn't an affair for more than a week btw - sorry - just to exonerate very slightly, I dumped him back then as well, which was when he left her, but I wish I hadn't taken him on)

Your new home will be everything YOU want it to be, yours and dd's special place. Cherish it

I feel really sorry for him ....NOT!!!!

"He was in 'a bad place' and made 'bad decisions' but now he misses me and will be a much better husband."

The thing is, there are plenty of blokes out there who even when "in a bad place" don't go off and fuck other women.

You want one of those.

He's already failed the initiative test.

Stick to your guns, you were right to bin him, the tosser.

You rock kirsty

Let the loser cry into his cornflakes.

Once they realise the grass isn't always greener they want to come back. Or when they don't have anyone to do all their cooking, cleaning, washing etc...

To be fair he did the cooking (mine wasn´t up to his standards) and a fair share of housework

However true to the script .. more lies .. he had told me when OW met DD was when he realised things were all wrong .. he said that they met once when I know that they met twice .. casually asked DD how often she met the OW and DD replied 4 times and then described what they had done on each occassion...

Guess she really did dump him as I suspected ... poor lamb the butterflies he had in his tummy are all gone now!! :)

Hi KW! How was your hol? Ours was fab. Some classic lines from the kids, including one I thought you might appreciate:

• packing seemed so easy - usually there is always shouting and panicking
• are we early for our flight?

Glad to see you sticking to your guns. Sorry to hear that you've uncovered more unpleasant lies (esp involving your DD). Did you get the offer on the house?
xx

Yes holiday was fab Loving glad you had a great time. We are literally just back and offer accepted on house. Will give you a shout re coffee next week if you are free xx

You have to wonder why they bother to lie. Surely they know that the truth always comes out?

And they all follow the same tired old hackneyed script

It wasn't as though the truth would have changed my mind Izzy but it would have made for a nice change!!!

"The thing is, there are plenty of blokes out there who even when "in a bad place" don't go off and fuck other women"

Absolutely Apocalypto! Well said!

Well done Kirsty, stay strong, whoever comes next WILL appreciate you, your cooking and everything else about you. You really lost a loser there love!

Hi KW - good for you. All happening then. I'm off this week, at home with kids, but back from 17th and can met for coffee that week if you're about. Hope you've got some new house schedules for me to nosy through!

Sounds like a plan.. need separation agreement sorted before i can seriously look but a nosey will do no harm

Enjoy the rest of your holiday .. I'm back at work tomorrow :(

xx