Are All Men Compulsive Liars?????

[Teansympathy]

Try to keep this short been up all night so need to rant, just found out my partner of 18 months is seeing someone else, so whats new you may ask, well we are supposed to be going on Holiday in a weeks time I confront him he denies says lets go as friends anyway, I sort of agree, then check his phone and he has text OW to say good outcome our relationship has ended !,But I might still go on holiday with himas a friend the OW IS MARRIED. Men I feel so used but what i absoultely can not stand is their bare faced lies. Thanks for reading had to get it off my chest now to go to work and face all my colleagues ho hum life is never dull.

First thing I would advise is not to go on holiday with him as friends, lovers or otherwise.. :(

No all men are not compulsive liars. Don't go on holiday with that one though. Also sorry but I'd get an sti check if I were you.

OH thanks Heyonni nope not going do that will wake him up soon and ask him to leave END OF , but a BIG thanks for replying at this early morning, hope you ahave good day.

Yes chubfuddler will do i know they are not all compulsive liars just a tad upset about him using me like this , but will get over it I am sure thanks.

You too OP, well as best you can under the circumstances. X

Are their any kids?. Why would go on holiday with him?
Get rid. Although I would write down her number just in case.

You're right to be furious, but it's better to know what you are up against.

I hope you go on holiday without him.

NO no kids he is of an age where he should know better!, i aint going anywhere with that creep! ta anyway x

In answer to OP, no.

Leave this one well alone though.

Thanks I have just kicked him out and swore at him takes alot for me to do that know i need to have a good bubble then sort myself out to go to work.

Bless you, well done for getting rid.

Just worked why he wanted me to go on hoilday with me,as asmoke screen , cover for
OW golly i am a dumb chick at times guess too shocked to think straight till now.

Thanks it was quite easy really suprised myself , mm will sleep well tonight alone in my own big bed ahh.

You should absolutely go on holiday... and leave him behind!

You need some space to breathe, rant and start healing. You may as well be somewhere nice while you're doing that.

Agree with what others have said. He's in the wrong so he shouldbe th one to miss out on the holiday, not you. Hope you feel better soon. It's been a shock, and it's horrible, but better that you find out now, relatively earlY on, than years from now wih a marriage and kids.

Yes agree Prettyprince, just we have both been married and divorced for along time, I think what the heck is going on? , grow up and act your age and behave!,but thanks anyway I will survive had worse shocks but it is horrible at the time your right.

Well done you, for being strong

and no, not all men are liars, just the ones that tell lies

No

Arses are liars, can be either sex.

Men are compulsive liars? What about the married woman he's seeing? Bet she hasn't told her husband about her bit on the side.

Cheaters are compulsive liars, and most men who are cheating are doing so with, guess what: a woman.

Disclaimer: as mother, sister and friend of some ace blokes I do resent them all being tarred with the same brush! XH is a compulsive liar btw, but as far as I know, not a cheat.

I think OP can be forgiven for her ranting generalisations just now though

Hope you are ok, love. He is a shit and you are a better person than he will ever be.

Oh OK, I'll let her off.

Good luck OP. Have a terrific holiday without the cheaty one.

Teansympathy,

As a bloke I can categorically tell you that not all men are liars..

But then I would say that and it could be a lie....

Seriously, both men and women can be liars when it suits them to be.

Not all men, and not all women are liars

Liars will lie be they male or female. Lies can be big or small, but they are still lies.

Hope you can move on and realise you have a life to look forward to without having to worry about the people in it being untruthful.

Indeed, thanks very much for the offer of kind words , yea I know everyone is not a cheat and a liar was just in shock and my head was reeling had to let it all out, I do appreciate a blokes perspective , will just need to lick my wounds and get on with life BUT i will be so wary after this , sorry but it is the way i feel, maybe too early days and all that, but thanks again .

There is nothing wrong with wary about men. In fact, it is what you should be. Use this experience to tune up your twat radar, and onward and upward ...

You're well rid, my dear.

And if the OW is married, the sh*t will hit the fan soon enough. Be glad you're out of it. You deserve so much better!

Can you change the holiday to another place, just to make sure he won't be there?