DP was made redundant three months ago and only got a piddly redundancy payment.
He is looking for jobs but is unsuccessful and seems to think that everything is beneath him. I think this is coming across in his interviews.
I've been lucky enough to pick up loads of overtime but am utterly exhausted as a result. Yet he won't help me around the house. No cleaning, no laundry, etc. I do ask. Once I asked him to do some washing and he simply loaded the machine and turned it on, he didn't hang it up or anything. That was left to me.
He'll do the odd bit of washing up and if I ever ask him to do anything for me I feel like I have to ask really nicely so as not to offend him.
I'm soooooo tired. Am working nights which is hard anyway. Then coming home, sleeping for a bit, sorting out washing, cleaning, lunchboxes, etc and then going back to work.
A colleague has suggested that I just tell him that there's no more overtime available (which I did but he just kept going on saying; 'Yes, there will. People will be ill or go on holiday.') forcing him to job hunt more seriously.
I don't know what to do. I feel dumped on. Really dumped on. And tired and unnappreciated.
:(
Cheers for listening.
:)