im so fucking angry and hurt

[loganberry12]

just found out the reason my ex didnt come and see his daughter last saturday is because his neck was covered in love bites, he has denied seeing anyone else all along now i know he's been lying, i text him but he just said i was mental and nothing has happened but ive been told about this by someone he works with and today when i saw him i thought he had a love bite and asked him but he said it was were he'd knocked his neck carrying a bit of wood, god i could scream i hate him so much the wanker

God, how old is he? Love bites?

42 i know what a dick

Agreed, he is a wanker.

eeeeeewwww; op I'm sure youv'e had a lucky escape. Sounds like a mid life crisis to me.

And this stopped him seeing his dd? What an utter tosspot!

i dont know how to let this go im so hurt and i suppose insulted i wish i could get him out of my head like he never existed i feel like im going mad everything going around in my head and revenge on my mind i dont think i'll be sleeping tonight but i bet he will the wanker

after a good night's shut-eye where you you enjoy the sleep of the vindicated, you will realise this is all grist to the mill ofthis is why I am glad this tool is no longer my partner

buy him a scarf and tell him to grow up

i wish i could see the funny side and how pathetic he is but im so angry and hurt i actually believed all his bullshit

you will eventually, LB

forgive yourself for falling for it, seriously, because while he still has the power to ruin your evening, he is still too important in your life

i was getting better beginning to heal now i feel like im going to get depressed again and obsessive trying to find out who he's with i keep imaging them together laughing at me god i hate this

does it matter ?

you are well rid, honestly

a bloke that blows his dd out because of his teenage acting-out ? Whoever is with him now is welcome to that. Not your problem any more.

AnyFucker yes your right and thats what i keep telling myself but im hurting its my pride i suppose i have to let this go for mine and everyone sake i know its a battle though fighting with my head and my heart

Concentrate on him seeing his DD as opposed to what he is doing with whom. His lack of contact with his daughter is the issue, not your feelings about love bites from some other woman. Work on your own life/self-esteem, so it's no longer important what you ex is doing.

yes AP im going to have to get some kind of councilling because i do have low self esteem i need to get strong

that's a really good idea, love

these fuckwits have the power to mash our brains and they are just not worth it

get a good night's sleep and you will feel better in the morning (that sounds very patronising but it's true) x

Logan darling.Remember when that nasty man told you to abort your lovely daughter?Now keep that in mind and get very,very angry.Good woman.You are much too good for him, the swine.

You are strong lovely woman and mother dont forget it will be his lose , he will regret it may take him awhile but he will acting like a 2 year old.

Forgot to say big hug to you take care.

Loganberry:

say to yourself over and over again whilst you are feeling awful: your behaviour does not say what I am worth. I am a good, kind, wonderful person.

I think I said this about 10 000 times when I was devastated like you are. Now? I really know it. Imagine being so low that you run away like that. You are a good person and he is a twat. She will find out.