Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Wish me luck

12 replies

nolongeramug · 19/06/2012 21:02

Living with my Ex at the moment after ending the relaltionship 5 months ago it has been the shittiest months of my life, an emotional roller coaster of sheer hell.
He refused to accept his lying and cheating was reason enough for me to end it. He has convinced himself I am seeing someone else, I'm not, he is still trying to control me and makes my life miserable.

House has been on the market for several months and finally we have some interest - and a second viewing tomorrow from a couple who have sold.

I am literally praying they make an offer, I have everything crossed!

OP posts:
suebfg · 19/06/2012 21:04

good luck!

neuroticmumof3 · 19/06/2012 21:27

good luck.

EclecticShock · 19/06/2012 21:33

Everything crossed for you :)

izzyizin · 19/06/2012 21:41

Clear the clutter, relegate pets/dc/ex to shed, bake bread, percolate coffee, burn scented candles upstairs, yada yada, - GOOD LUCK!

AnastasiaSteele · 19/06/2012 21:59

good luck

nolongeramug · 19/06/2012 22:04

Thanks!

I hope they make an offer, but I know then that will kick off another issue. He has already said he wants the asking price.

He is not realistic, and most of all is very resentful that he has to start again, and that he will be worse off than me, only because I earn more and am younger so can get a longer mortgage.

But he clearly despises me for that, and I fear the bullying and mind games will commence.

OP posts:
Agalessnow · 19/06/2012 22:10

If it comes to him refusing an offer, could you agree to rent out your house and move on separately?

LateDeveloper · 20/06/2012 10:23

good luck op. If he refuses to be sensible you might need to take legal advice? I am sure that if you stick to your guns eventually he will realise that you will not change your mind and that it is in his interest to move on as well.

Agalessnow · 20/06/2012 17:51

Hope things went well OP.

JustFabulous · 20/06/2012 17:52

Huge amount of luck to you.

nolongeramug · 20/06/2012 22:27

Well it went ok, I think. Hard to tell, they asked a few more questions but didn't really let on much else.

Nervous wait now, will ring estate agent tomorrow for any news.

OP posts:
Agalessnow · 20/06/2012 23:56

Good luck.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page