apologies in advance..... i have 3 kiddies to 2 dads and an interfering mother.... my 2 oldest kiddies have supervised visits with there dad once a week supervised by my mum... i have been with my youngests dad for 2yrs we had a brief split at xmas got back together march and split wednesday las week....
anyway everything has come to a head this week with them all i am sick to the back teeth of the above mentioned..... oldest kids dad winds me up summat rotten anyway as i dnt see why he should have a relationship with the kids he couldnt be bothered until i got into my new realationship and the courts decided he could have visits.....
my mother isn't happy unless im unhappy!!! she enjoys the drama and likes to be in everyones business always pulling me down you would have thought that she would hate my oldests kids dad after all he put us thru (domestic violence) but no she seems to get along with him n his mother just to wind me up he cant do any wrong!
youngest kids dad decided wednesday he could no longer "do this" and walked had enuff of my mum and her 2 faced ways she seems to enjoy winding up a difficult situation.... although i dont have any contact with oldest kids dad at all only time i see him is court appointments it really grates on youngest bbys dad that its us thats doing all for his 2 kids when he takes them to macdonalds and poundland once a week....
tried so hard with youngest bbys dad to explain and calm the situation and tell him to ignore my mum and her games but to no avail....
so here i am with 3 kiddies on my own and a mother crowing n stiring up her cauldron..... so i had it out with my mum today and got the usual put downs and one liners (same arguement diferent day)
ANY ADVICE???