Have had an on off relationship with bf for over 5 years. We live in different countries so we dont get to see each other a lot but still are close.
Recieved a message from him at 4 in the morning, which apeared to be replying to a question. Which is suspicious as i hadnt contacted him for two days. So i got very angry and asked who he had been messaging (it was a dirty message). Its been over 3 weeks and i havent heard anything. Zilch. I have even appologised for calling him up on it. Nothing back.
Bit of background, he has a history of straying. A lot. But being the fool that i am, i keep on running back to him when he says sorry. Even when he got a STD, he managed to wringle out of it. He does say he loves me by the way.
Now i have been on mumsnet long enough to realise emotionally abuse behaviour. And you could write a book on his behaviour. I know the relationship has run its course, My question to everyone is how can i fuck him over? how can i hurt him back? I know this isnt a game but there is only so much i can take. The only thing important in his life is his phone ( for contacting other woment), so apart from smashing that up, i dont think anything i say or do will hurt him.
Obviously scratching the car is out of the question, as i dont want to fly over to a different country just to do that!