So as the title days I'm 9wls ph with no 2. Am together with do 4 yrs and we are very happy and in love and get on great. No 1 ds wasnt planned but we were overjoyed. This baby was planned and we are again delighted and everything is going wel so far. The issue isy do is out of work and had Benin for last two yrs, he works sporadically when there is anything going he is in a specialised role in construction and we live in Ireland and jobs are few and far between. At the
Moment he has a few things lined up but nothin solid as yet. I have a degree but can't get full time work either but am doin voluntary part time so will have more options this time next year.
So obviously things are very tight financially but we are managing well enough so we decided to go for no 2 as im not gettin any younger and we would both likeote than 2 children. My mum and sisters are coming to vist next week so we are goin to
Tell them then but I'm nervous as I expect they won't be overjoyed and will in fact think we are crazy to have planned another baby when money is so tight. How can I deal with any negative/smart comments? We get on well but sometimes I feel they can be judgemental. I don't want to feel upset and nervous but I do! Apologies in advance for spelling grammar am on iPhone. Thanks!