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Do you have Step Siblings?

13 replies

Beetroot · 23/02/2006 11:08

Are you close? if so why? or why not?

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Beetroot · 23/02/2006 11:16

Am I the only one

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3princesses · 23/02/2006 11:17

Have half-siblings. Does that count?

Beetroot · 23/02/2006 11:19

Oh actually that is what i mweant wil start antoher thread¬!

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snailspace · 23/02/2006 12:48

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harrisey · 24/02/2006 10:59

I have 3 step brothers. My Dad (whom I lived with) remarried when I was 14.
I am very close to them - to the extent that I told the doc at my very first ante-natal that I had a brother with diabetes - had to tell tham at the next appt that it was actually my step brother .....

Wills · 24/02/2006 11:14

I have a step brother and am closer to him than to my full brother. why? Cos he's not related to my mother

LoveMyGirls · 24/02/2006 12:37

i have 4 step brothers and one half brother im not close to any of them really but we get on well.

i lived with my half bro from when he was born (i was 8) until i moved out when he was about 7 i love him and have looked after him a fair ammount but my sister has always lived with him and is older than me so i think they're closer and she looks after him more iyswim.

2 of my other brothers i get on with, we used to go on holidays as kids and i see them at family gatherings but i only go to one of their houses now and again.

the other 2 i rarely see, prob at xmas, they were a lot older than me and i only lived with one of them for a year and i was always out or he was so didnt see much of him.

fransmom · 24/02/2006 18:26

just quickly read this thread, i have a whole step-family thing that i've not met properly cos my dad remarried about 3 years back but has since disowned all 3of his kids. i have a 10mth old that he doesn't even want to know, and now she coming up to 1yr old, it makes me feel a bit sad that she'll never know him. has anyone else ever gone through this? his new wife - not very nice person at all

leggymamba · 24/02/2006 18:33

My mum remarried when I was 6 and I've got 3 sisters from that marriage - don't like to put step/half sisters because I don't see them that way. There's 8 years between me and the next down - while we didn't not get on when we were younger the age gap made a difference. Now we are all really close and I have three sisters to ask to come and babysit!

My father remarried and new wife was also old witch - haven't seen him since I was 7. His loss!

QE2 · 24/02/2006 18:38

I have a full brother who lives 70 miles away so we don't see each other much. He grew up with my nan, I grew up with my dad so we didn't see each other much as kids either. Not close now really.

Have a half brother who lived with my mum so never saw him so don't know him either.

Have another half brother who I did grow up with but he has turned into a total tosser so I don't have much time fior him.

Have yet another half brother who was born after I left home and as he is the same age or younger than my own kids, I don't see him as a brother iyswim.

Reading that back makes me realise what a fractured family I really have. Makes me all the more grateful I think to have a stable marriage and environment for my own kids to grow up in.

fransmom · 24/02/2006 18:39

she even had some of my mom's stuff that mom would have wanted us to have! god knows what happened to the family photo albums, nasty nasty pasty

tribpot · 24/02/2006 18:49

I have:

  • one full brother
  • one half-sister
  • one step-sister
  • two step-brothers.

Of them all, I am least close to my half-sister. She is quite a long younger than the rest of us and grew up with my dad. I see them all as my brothers and sisters, although I know my brother doesn't feel the same way. I guess he doesn't have so much contact with the steps as I do (basically because he can't use email!). My mum and step-dad have been married for 27 years, so essentially this has been most of my family life.

tribpot · 24/02/2006 18:50

Oh, I once went out for lunch with my half-sister, my step-brother, his wife and her sister. The sister asked "who is ?" and my step-brother earnestly explained "right, she's my step-sister's half-sister". All far too much for normal people to cope with

I have a friend who has two half-brothers with the same name, one from her dad and one from her mum. I do think that is a little unsporting.

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