Just don't know what to do?

[Zacsbird]

I found some awful nasty bitchiness on FB from my ex's new wife, basically
calling me an alcohol dependent bitch who has the DD's to claim benefits. They have apparently called social services already, although I have never had a visit from this.

I know this is her ranting to an extent, but at the end it she offers her friends my address so they can shove me under a bus. Throughout the post you can almost feel the venom coming through.

I did speak to my solicitor who suggested I speak to the police, but have not gone this way yet. Due to DD's being ill, and us being away for half term they haven' t seen Dad since I saw this post by his wife.

I suppose I'm really asking would you phone the police? We don't have a relationship to wreck, but worry how it will affect the DD's. I reallly don't war them spending time with a woman who hates me so much.

From what you've said, effectively the demented one new wife is inciting violence against you which is tantamount to being a threat to kill.

Under the circumstances, I have no hesitation in advising you to act on your solicitor's advice and report this matter to the police. Give your local police authority a call later this morning on the non-emergency number.

Until such time as the police have spoken to her and reported back, I would suggest you suspend your dd's contact with her df and also print off the venomous FB post and lodge it with your solicitor for safekeeping.

For the sake of your dd, as well as your own safety, I urge you to take this seriously and I trust that the police will be as concerned as I am about this threat to your person.

Report it to the police - take a screen shot of her FB page with the thread, print it out and take it to them so that they can see what she has written.

She sounds foul and I agree it might be best to keep your DC away from her for now until this has resolved.

I don't suppose anyone would be stupid enough to do what she's suggested but still - the fact that she's even suggesting it should be enough for the police to investigate.