Been sexting now to do it for real

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This is my first post so please bear with me.

I have been sexting with a guy for the last 2 weeks or so, we have been friends for the past two years, nothing has ever actually happened between us other than a quick peck but there has always been a mutual attraction and flirting.

Now he wants to meet and actually put our words into action and I think I do too, just feeling very nervous about it all. Not terribly confident about my body and its been a whike with someone new. Has anyone got experience of this and any confidence boosting tips would be gratefully received. Thanks

losingitall and babylann thank you for your reassurances :)

This sounds really sad, but when I got home my hair smelled of him, I was in heaven ha!

I really reall hope you both have a good time x

Childofisis and WhiteWidow you have boosted my confidence no end, thanks

My duvet cover smells of his aftershave.
As he left he told me a list of things that would be a possibilty next time.

We were only on top, always did it under the covers with ex, he was so boring!!

I really get that I am a desirable woman, never believed that before.
That's sad really isn't it I'm 44 fgs.

Listen OP, men get older & saggier as they age too!! Don't worry - he'll be so delighted he's got your kit off he won't notice any minor imperfections!!

ChildofIsis - go girl!!! What a bloody great way to spend a Saturday afternoon!

Absolutely, I hope to spend a few more saturday afternoons like it.

Having thought about it it's around 15 years since I had saturday afternoon sex, work, boring ex and DD got in the way.

I've very tender in places today but wonderfully so.

Added to that I spent 2 hours last night messaging with a guy from oasis (who i think is lovely too!) who'd dropped off the radar a few weeks a go.
So the world's suddenly a much 'friendlier' place!

Oh I do love a bit of sexting! Me and dp still do it now

Hope you have a lovely time op -and come back and tell us all about it--

I'd never done the sexting stuff before starting on the on-line dating scene, it's lots of fun.

I hope all goes well for OP too.

omg it finally happened today and it was fab! I did as advised, new underwear, primped and primed etc and all the body issues I was worried about were soon forgotten. We spent most of the day in bed and I can't wait until next time. Looking forward to the texts tomorrow :o

This thread is LOVELY! good for you OP, and the others...

My new relationship is not at that stage yet, and I was worrying about my own body etc, but I feel a lot better about it all now.

Bring it ON....

So... why did it take you two years to snare him?!!!

How did it start if I may ask.

I have a long term friend who I fancy, we text a few times a week but I would rather die than telling him that I fancy him. I would like him to work it out for himself i/e perhaps add something in a text that makes him think without it being obvious/corny.