I could do with some support and advice

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i have not been happy with oh for a while now and I feel that it's coming to ahead and we need to separate. I am a Sahm with mo personal income and no family support. I have 2 Dds aged 2 and 4. Oldest is due to start school in Sept. I just don't know how to go about leaving. I don't think I will have a choice other than benefits in the short term. I don't have a penny. The house is mortgaged but I am not on the mortgage.

Is your relationship that irrepairable that you cant work things through?

You can get half an hour's free legal advice from some solicitors.

Make an appointment with the CAB too.

I honestly done know. I do love him but we are making each other miserable. He is stressed at work and I sometimes find it hard with Dds and we just takenit out on each other. I could wait until dd1 starts school and dd2 goes to her grant nursery place. I would them be able to work and it might take pressure off us but as I sit here now it feels like we are too far apart to ever come together gain

CAB, or see if your council has any advice one stop shops

Talk to your partner/husband in the first instance. If you love someone it would be unfair to call time without giving them at least some warning or a chance to turn things around. If your lack of financial independence bothers you (and it would me) then there's nothing to stop you seeking work right now or getting a regular allowance from your partner. As for home-ownership, if you are married then it is automatically assumed that you jointly own the property. If not, the rules are slightly different.

My H walked out with no warning or chance to change things so I would echo above and say talk don't just end it ..