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I am so very mad at DP right now!

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MySonIsMyWorld · 31/05/2012 23:08

A few weeks ago i left my 1 year old son with his daddy while i went for a sleep upstairs for 3 hours, anyway i woke up at 4 and i could hear both of them downstairs, perfectly happy chatting to each other in baby speak, i wake up at 6 and all i can hear is my son. So i blurry eyed make my way downstairs and my ds is playing in the living room while dp is asleep on the sofa!! Woke him up and he claims he was never asleep!!!!!!! My neightbour came around to see me noticed dp was asleep at 5pm and came back every 10 mins to check on my ds! Anything could of happened!!!!!! I had a huge rant at him about what could of happen etc etc and i thought it went into his thick skull but a few weeks later i had a bath and left ds with dp downstairs, could hear ds shouting daddad stood at the bottle of the f-ing stairs!!!!!!! DP ASLEEP AGAIN! now i feel like i carnt even leave my ds with my dp on his own as i dont feel like he is safe!!!!! Has you dp ever done anything like this? how did you get past it? x

OP posts:
FayeGovan · 31/05/2012 23:12

could have happened

Groovee · 31/05/2012 23:14

It's not dh who does that but me. But I do have a medical condition. My kids know how to rouse me and dh will phone if he suspects I may be struggling.

MySonIsMyWorld · 31/05/2012 23:14

Haha thanks! :)

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akaemmafrost · 31/05/2012 23:53

What a helpful post faygovan Hmm. Very insightful and of real value to the OP's dilemma.

That's bad OP I'd be furious. What the hell is wrong with him?

Not sure what you can say really he is not listening is he? I would not be able to leave my child with him. What is he like in other ways? Does he do his bit domestically speaking?

solidgoldbrass · 31/05/2012 23:55

Has he always been inclined to sleep a lot? Or is there a reason for him to be tired (nightshift worker? Illness? Drink problem?)

zozzle · 01/06/2012 22:43

FayeGovan - why are you being so pedantic? I hate it when anal people feel they have to correct grammar on MN.

Why is he so tired?

PissyDust · 01/06/2012 22:50

Is there a reason why he is so tired? He may not be able to help it.

Is your DS sleeping ok or is he keeping you all awake at night?

Faye Hmm I want to call you a twat but I'm not allowed to.

MySonIsMyWorld · 03/06/2012 20:56

Thanks to all the others for sticking up for me with the comment of FayeGovan!
Dp has no reason to fall asleep, he literally sleeps all night because i do most night shifts, he doesnt help around the house at all and he does nothing but watch tv and xbox there is no reason he should be asleep!!

If you have a medical conditon then its understandable!! He doesnt! DS is his resonability at that point in thime therefor he should be looking after him uggggh MENNN!!

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ledkr · 03/06/2012 21:53

pissy I will faye You are a twat.

HTH Grin

MrsTerryPratchett · 03/06/2012 22:08

He just sounds like he's lazy.

PissyDust · 03/06/2012 22:34

Oh you rebel ledkr Grin

It's quiet on here tonight, I'm nearly missing SHOUTY GodsSlut1!

cheesesarnie · 03/06/2012 22:39

what about work?is his job demanding?

i remember my dc being small and feeling that i did everything with dc and if i wanted/needed time off (nap or bath) that dh didnt do it right or feel asleep etc.
yes i worked hard but what i didnt take into consideration was that he worked hard too.we were both shattered.

cheesesarnie · 03/06/2012 22:40

also have you brought it up in normal conversation-when its not just happened so tensions are high etc?

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