he's gone off sex

[Lala1980]

My partner's libido has dropped off over the past year. he says he's just not in the mood. what about my needs? he says I haven't done anything wrong but I can't help feeling that I have. In bed crying after advances rejected AGAIN...

Same here! It's hard feeling so rejected. No pearls of wisdom but I didn't want to read and run. Sending you a big hug xxx

This happened to me. He basically refused to talk about it or do anything about it. I left him.

It is not right that one half of a relationship is left crying and feeling rejected. You are hurting and he needs to recognise this and bloody well do something about it. You need to talk about it and see if you can find a way through or if the problem is too big and you need to separate.

But don't let it drag on like this. You will get more and more bitter and resentful. If the relationship is worth anything you should both want to try together to fix it. If he won't meet you even half way then sadly I think it's over.