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balotelli · 23/05/2012 20:59

Have posted before with my 'probs' and all the MNers give great advice ...... usually. so please can you give me your advice on ....
Dw doesnt fancy me and hasnt..... ever! She loves me and married me because I was 'safe and comfortable'. I love her and fancy her like crazy after 13 years together and one DC (3) and do not want to leave but.....
Do I end the relationship and give her the chance to find someone she does fancy and can have a proper passionate loving relationship?
She has been having counselling to help with problems from her past and her present relationship with her DM. It seems to be helping but while it may help her to be happier which is fantastic it cant and wont make her find me attractive.
I really dont know what to do for the best!!
Please help

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carernotasaint · 24/05/2012 21:41

Sorry to hear youve had a tough day. Im like this too. I veer from being ok for a while to being very depressed and down about it for weeks at a time. Im 40 next year and i sometimes think passion is never gonna happen for me again either. On the up side ive lost 1 stone and 4 pounds since the end of Feb. Trouble with that is the confidence increases along with the sex drive. Again im sorry that youve had a crappy day. You sound like a lovely guy.

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